Hey,
People always wonder what the best eyeshadow is. For a starter if you go to MAC, here are two eyeshadows to try out. Naked Lunch and Phloof are great beginner eyeshadows from MAC. You can have fun with the looks by adding a fun eyeliner color.
Two blushes that you should try to get your hands on are Dame and Pink Swoon. Pink Swoon is more vibrant then Dame, but it does not look cakey or fake on. Dame is more of a soft pink. If you are going to be a little more daring go for the Pink Swoon, but if you want to have one that will be a great neutral blush, go for Dame.
If you want to get a lipgloss, go for a lipglass or a dazzleglass. Make sure it is a light pink color and if I were you I would get one with some sparkle in it. A little shimmer never hurt anyone.
Hope this helps!
Toodles,
Emilee